Kurt Martin Thallmayer, 38, passed away peacefully today following a long battle with Leukemia. He was the beloved husband of Evey Thallmayer, brother Steve Thallmayer, and loving son of Erich Thallmayer and Andree Van Rensburg. He is survived by a loving family of Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, and a large group of friends that loved him very much. His lasting tribute will be all the lives he touched and all the friends who considered him family, all of whom will never forget his wit, his generosity, and his courage.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in Kurt's name to The Leukemia and Lymphoma Society at www.lls.org.
Thank you all for standing by Kurt's side, every step of his battle and throughout the incredible life that he led.
Details for Kurt's Celebration of Life will be posted here in the next few days.
Evey and Kurt
Floyd and Carly
Family
Captain Van
Light The Night Walk with Staci and Van
Light the Night
Team Chrome Dome in all it's glory
Groomsmen
Mom and Kurt
The Boys
FAQ's
- Where can I find Kurt? UC San Diego Medical Center in La Jolla
- What if I want to mail something? Mailing address is: UCSD Medical Center Thornton Hospital 3 West Mail Code 7608 9300 Campus Point Dr. La Jolla, CA 92037-1300
- Is there anything Kurt needs that I can send him? Thank you all for the offer! We have everything we need, in fact, if you want to borrow a movie, come on down!
- Is there anything I cannot send or bring when I visit? Yes, the following are prohibited: fresh flowers, fresh fruit, vegetables, anyone even close to being sick and children
- Is there anything I can do to help? Keep an optimistic attitude and throw as much positive energy his way!
- How long will he be there? As of now, Kurt will be here for at least a few months. If he goes into remission they will try for a bone marrow transplant in the beginning of January 2011.
86 comments:
Love you Evey and we are all here for you and the family. You are all in our prayers. - Cooksey
I'm so sorry to read this.
I am terribly saddened and in complete shock. My deepest condolences to Evey, his family, his friends and the countless lives he was able to touch in his 38 years. I know I will never forget him.
Kurt, may you rest in peace.
-Christine Liu
I am truly sorry for your loss, it was such a blessing to see Kurt and meet you Evey at the High School Reunion last year. Kurt was a great guy and extremely lucky to have been loved for and taken care of. I will say a prayer for Kurt that he may truly rest in peace now. Blessing to the Thallmayer Family.
Regards,
Yvette Thomas (Payne)
Rest in Peace my Friend
Evey our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family
Rickman
Dear Evey,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all the family at this time. We are heartbroken to hear the news. If there is anything we can do, you only have to ask.
God Bless -
Love - Peta
All My Love to the Thallmayer and Gonzalez family
Tony Clark
This is terrible news. I will always remember the great times we shared while working and travelling. He made a difference to my life and I am honored to have been his friend. Sincere condolences to Evey and his family. Rest in peace
Jonathan Merrell
What an incredible gift Kurt gave all of us by documenting his experiences during this long fight against this disease. Just reading through all of these posts you see his heart, determination and his love for everyone in his life. I'm happy that he had Evey and all of his family and countless friends to show him their love and support. Evey, I want to give you the biggest hug and comfort you during this even though we don't know each other well. You both had true love for one another and that's obvious. I will continue to pray for strength for you and all of Kurt's family. God is with you during this even though you may not feel it. I know he is. Thank you Kurt for your strength and courage you showed us. You will be missed.
Lorie Littler
Prayers of strengh and love to you and your family Evey. So very sorry to hear of Kurt's passing. May he rest in peace and may his legacy continue to live on through you.
-Ian and Dwana
Evey, I'm so sorry to hear this. We love you and are here for anything we can do to help you and the family. Kurt is one of the best people I've ever had the pleasure to know, as can be witnessed by the amazing friends he chose to keep close to him and loving family. God bless you Evey and you are not alone in this. Kurt will forever be in all of our lives. - love tom & jao
Evey, so so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
-Glenn and Nancy
Kurt,
May you Rest In Peace. You were an amazing man and had so much courage and strength. I will always remember you.
Evey,
As I told you, you are truly an ANGEL! I know you have many friends but please let me know if I can do anything to help you, to talk, or just be there. ou have been and are in my heart and prayers.
Love Always,
Steph Roberts
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Kurt's families. We are so lucky to have known him. He will always be remembered in our hearts. We are here if you need anything. Love The Montes Family, Felipe, Christi, Mason and Mia.
Evey you will be in my thoughts and prayers. You are one of the strongest people I know.
Kurt put up a great fight and he will be greatly missed.
Tiff
Evey and Thaymaller Family~ I am so sorry for your loss. One of my favoirte promises from God that I hold on to dearly is below. I hope it helps you to find comfort as well. Alsothe promise that this is not a goodbye but see you again soon.
Revelation 21:4 ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’[a] or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”
Your in our thoughts and prayers~
Cari
Sorry for the mispell...tears in my eyes...Thallmayer family~
Dear Evey,
i am so sorry for your loss. I have been praying for both of you for a while but had not written until now. He was an inspiration and a very courageous man. You will all continue to be in my prayers.
God Bless,
Teresa Cripps
God Bless you, Evey. I have been praying for you both daily. You will continue to be in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.
Katie Bradford
My thoughts and prayers are with you Evey, as well as Kurts family. May Kurt rest in eternal peace, until you join him again one day. He will be missed.
Rest in peace Kurt. You will surely be missed. Thank you for sharing part of your life with us here in the Philippines. It was great knowing you.
Our deepest and sincerest condolences to your family.
I am so so sorry Evey. I've been reading this blog and getting updates from Jill. I'm so sad right now. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Looks like you have an amazing network of friends and family - but if there is anything I can do, please let me know.
Jennifer (Schoemann)Beckner
Evey - I am so sad to hear. It seems so unreal. I hope it helps a little to know that you are not alone. You and Kurt have an big group of friends and loving family that care about you....... Jeni
Broke my heart when I got the news today. Gonna miss you brother....say hello to Van for us
Mike Gutierrez
Evey - It's so unbelieveable. I am so sorry to hear. I'm here if you need anything and I will keep you all in my prayers...
Jeni
Kurt was such an amazing, funny, caring individual. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Thallmayer family.
Lisa Thurman-Martinez
It does not seem real to say the words goodbye and mark the end to the courageous three years Kurt spent battling leukemia. Kurt’s body endured radiation, chemo and countless medications. Then he had to learn about new conditions like GVHD, VOD, and atrial flutter, from the outside each seemed scarier and scarier.
So many days, nights and holidays spent inside hospital walls. Our few nights at Hoag show me that Evey was truly an angel for Kurt, not leaving his side night after night. Their love and devotion to each other is incomparable. No one thought that for one moment that we would ever have to stop hoping for a miracle, because Kurt proved to us that he was a miracle time and time again.
Kurt and Evey were an unstoppable team in our eyes. Evey is one of the strongest people I know and very few people have her courage to throw 150% of themselves into a relationship, but also into the wellness, care and daily battle of AML. I am beyond sad for your loss honey. I am here for you my friend Ev, just as you have been there for me. We will miss Kurt dearly, eternally.
And to Kurt’s family that I have spent more and more time with, I am sorry for your loss. You have all been so loving and supportive to Evey, her family/friends and for each other. This was very special to see firsthand.
With much love,
Natasha
Evey we are so sad for your loss and for Kurt's family and friends.
Kurt fought such a hard battle with such courage, he was such an inspiration to us all. You have been such a great strength and love to him from the very beginning. I know God has a special place for him, right next to Van. You and Kurt's family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love Mr. and Mrs. O
Evey and The Thallmayer family I am so sorry for your loss. Kurt was a great friend and I will really miss him. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Vito and Family
To our beloved Kurt,
You will always be remembered and live forever through the memories that will continue to keep us strong and inspired.
To our dearest Evey,
We may be far, but please know that you have found a family here in Manila. We will always be here for you.
Our prayers and love go to you and your family.
Sincerely,
J-ann and Kenneth Kabiling
Evey:
God bless you and God bless Kurt's soul. May he join with Van in eternal peace and happiness.
Wood
May you rest in peace Boss. We will be forever thankful for what you did for OSG.
-Mikey (OSG)
Miss you buddy - rest in peace.
Sean
Thallmayer family,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Kurt. He is such a good man. I will miss him dearly.
Eric Knudson
To Evey and the entire Thallmayer family; We are so sorry for your loss. Kurt was truly an amazing human being and he will be missed.
He was an inspiration to us all.
Rest in peace Kurt
- Luissa & Ernie Diaz
My thoughts and prayers are with you Evey and your family. Kurt will always be in our thoughts... Love Hope
I am so sort to hear of your loss evey. sending much love to you. xoxo rachel
I am very saddened to hear the news today. My heart goes out to the Thallmayer family for this terrible loss. Kurt was an amazing person and I will miss him dearly.
Kelly Lund
Evey & the Thallmayer family - I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
-Laurie Carrion
Kurt,
On the wings of an angel, may you be carried to a better place, free of pain, and hospital rooms. You will not be gone, as every one you have every met will carry a piece of you in their hearts forever.You were an incredible teacher of strength. Evey, we love you, if you need anything.....
Donna and Cousin John
Evey, I am at a loss of words. I am terribly saddened by this news; Kurt was such a great guy and I held him in the highest regards. I will always remember him. He was taken from us way too soon. We are all thinking of you and your family.
~ Haitham
Evey-
Words just can't begin to express our sorrow. We will keep you all in our prayers for all the strength and comfort you will need.
love
Kelli & Doug and kids...
Kurt,
May you Rest In Peace.You have no more pain and is in a special place right now.Kurt you will always be in our hearts.
Andree,
The lost of your child is the hardest of all and I can not image your pain. No words can mend your broken heart.Our thoughts and deepest symphonies are with you during this time of sorrow.
I will never be able to find the right words to express my sorrow to your loss of your preciuos Son.But remember we love you and you know where to get a hold of us...
Steve,
Sorry to hear about your brother.
Our prayers and love goes out to you and your mom.Please take care of you mom and yourself.
We love you and you in our prayers.
Andree remember that we LOVE YOU LOTS...
Eric,Michelle and Family
very sad day indeed. :(
Rest in Peace Kurt!!!
Ed Hamze
My thoughts and prayers go out to Evey and Kurt's family. He was truly an inspiration to us all! -Dougie Fresh
I was deeply saddened to hear about Kurt's passing. My thoughts & prayers are with you Evey,your families and friends at this time.
May Kurt rest in peace.
Mary O'Brien
Evey and Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss and send my thoughts, prayers and sincere condolences. Blessings for the Thallmayer and Gonzalez families. Warmest Regards,
Ashley Loyd Fox
Evey, although we don't know you, you must be a very special person having entered into Kurt's life as the love of his life!! His spirit, tenacity, strength and zest for life will live on in all of us. He was a special guy and will be greatly missed. Our prayers go out to you and the Thallmayer family. I know he is at peace now, hopefully with a beer in his hand and his buddy Van by his side. RIP my friend! And Evey, may the love and stregnth of all those that have followed this journey be with you and help you through this tough time. Much love, Liz and Billy Reseigh
Evey I never had the chance to meet Kurt but everyone at Ingram always told me how awesome he was and I did follow his story on this blog. He put up a great fight. Take care of yourself, I'm sorry for your loss.
Meg Glenn
I'm sorry to hear this. Diana and my prayers are with you and both of your families.
-aaron rothfuss
Evey,
James and I are incredibly sad for the loss on earth of such a beautiful person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this new journey you have begun.
Keep him close in your heart and know he is with you always.
I will remember that little boy I grew up with, but you will know that wonderful man he became.
In our prayers,
-Sarah and James Moreta
Evey...you and Kurt's family are in my prayers. Find Peace in your thoughts of the Amazing place that Kurt will spend eternal life. - Shervita Bibbs
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are deeply saddened by the passing of Kurt. He will remain in our hearts forever.
Don and Michelle Hoppock
When I think of Kurt I will always be reminded of some of the many words that so aptly described him: Kind-hearted, Generous, Giving, Courageous, Great Friend, Great Teacher and above all, Inspirational. We will miss you Kurt.
My condolences to Evey and the entire Thallmayer family.
-Jackie Rebhan
I am sorry to hear this. I remember the good old days of working together at Ingram. Rest in peace. - Richard Conde
I'm sorry for your loss Evey. I enjoyed getting to briefly know Kurt, a great man. God bless both of you.
-Tamer
Evey, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Please accept my deepest condolences.
I'm so sorry for your loss Evey & Thallmayer family. Kurt was such a great person and he will be missed deeply. My heart and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.
R.I.P Kurt. Say hello to Van for me.
-Cathy Suarez
Evey, much love and prayers to you. Most of what I knew about Kurt was through Van's wonderful stories so I know he was an incredible guy. Although we'd only met a few times, the news is still devastating. There is peace in knowing they are together and watching over you. Your story is such an amazing lesson in commitment, strength and love. May God bless you and your families.
-Corey Lazzaro
I had the privilege of working with and getting to know Kurt. Always positive and a great example of what we all should strive to be like. God bless you Kurt – your courage and inspirational effort and willingness to share it has been invaluable to keep what’s important in perspective. My prayers and condolences to Evey and Kurt’s family.
Joe McCrone
Evey, I'm very sorry for your lost. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Kurt's family.
Kurt, may you rest in peace.
Pearl Benoe
Dear Kurt- where do I even begin to express the hole that is felt in my heart and all those that have had the pleasure of knowing you are right now. I have the best memories of our trip to Mardi Gras back in 1999 when I first met you and knew then you were a lifer friend. And wow what a treat when you actually started dating and then married one of my very best friends Evey Gonzalez Thallmayer. I was your number one fan encouraging that relationship from the start because I knew what a great guy you were! Evey is more like a sister to me and I knew you were the quality of a guy all the way around that I had always hoped for my friend. You both loved and cared for one another in the way that we all hope to be loved and cared for. You were always kind hearted, level headed and dependable even to those that you barely knew. I remember on one trip to Mammoth you picking up a random guy on the side of the road that had run out of gas and you invited him into your Durango without a second thought to help when many would just drive by. The way you treated people speaks volumes in your character and will not be forgotten in the way you have touched so many. You lived life with zest and is a reminder to myself to take nothing for granted and always live life to the fullest. You are so loved and missed and I want you to know I will be looking after your beautiful wife in your absence so don't you worry! Love you! Shannon
my thoughts and prayers to your family !!!
-mary ann ballestero (mabs)
so sorry
my prayers are with your family
- mabs
I am truly sorry for your loss Evey. I am glad I got to meet and work for Kurt. He was a very beautiful person and a caring person. He may be gone from this world but the memories of his laughter will remain in our hearts forever. Until we see him again in heaven I will pray for you and Thallmayer family.Kurt may you rest in peace with god and the angels.
R.M
This is such sad news and received with a heavy heart. Our deepest condolences to the entire Thallmayer family. A true treasure of a man has been lost and I know it weighs heavy on all his family and friends. God bless and please watch after Kurt, that he rest in peace and his memory shine brightly in all our thoughts and remembrances.
- Mike Hashimoto family
Kurt,
What an honor to have crossed your path in life. What an inspiration you are to us to know you lived your life to the fullest even at the end you still showed courage, and strength. Rest I Peace my friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family in this time of need.
Rich Chavez
I only met you that one time you joined us for my husband's first DJ gig in Manila and only wished we could have had more time to get to know each other. I do feel blessed to have met you, albeit, just for a night. May you rest in peace Kurt. My prayers go out to your family and friends.
Love, Ana Marques
Kurt- May you rest in peace my friend.
Joe Varela
I am profoundly sad to hear this news. Evey, my thoughts are with you and the Thallmayer family and you all have my deepest condolences.
Becky Wardlow
Although I haven't had the opportunity to spend too much time with Kurt, it's easy to see how quickly he made fantastic friends!
I was very suprised when he reached out to help me when he was deeply involved with his own health issues. What a great guy.
Kurt is an inspiration to all of us and the strongest person I've ever known. He taught us all a great lesson with how much he appreciated his "day at home with his dog." I know I'll stop and make sure I enjoy every day, and "my day at home with my dog."
Thank you, Kurt. JohnC.
I was so, so sad to hear of Kurt's death. Although I usually saw him at his Dad's home, walking Floyd, I knew him as such a warm, fun spirit. He may be gone but not forgotten and I'm sure he wil be smiling down on all of you! Lots of love....Cindy Casey (Erich's neighbor)
Evey, my heart is so heavy today I can barely breathe.
I watched Kurt grow from a skinny lost little boy to an amazing. accomplished caring giving man. he has always inspired and truly amazed me.I loved him as a boy and as a man. He will not soon be forgotten by anyone whose path he crossed, however briefly.
I pray for you as I always have,but especially now that my God of love will wrap his arms around and hold you close.
Karryn (John's Mom)
Evey, (and family)
I pray daily that you find comfort and strength, we love you dearly!!!
Danny and I will truly miss Kurt.
Danny and Aretha Hooks
Evey and Thallmayer Family,
Our heart breaks for your loss. Kurt was an amazing guy with a true spirit for life. He will be greatly missed and never forgotten. You are all in our constant thoughts and prayers.
The Mathes Family
Cathleen, Steve, Gracie & Ellie
My thoughts and prayers are with you Evey. Kurt was loved by so many ... and your strength and courage has been an inspiration to us all. Love Meena
Dear Evey and the Thallmayer family,
I was so saddened to hear the news of Kurt’s passing. Though the pain is great now, may you soon find solace knowing that he’s finally at peace and free from all his earthly pains. Kurt’s grace and courage throughout his illness is a testimony of what a wonderful man he was in his short lifetime. His blog brought me inspiration during a time when my own sister was fighting her battle. For sharing with us his story, I thank him. By that simple act, he made us feel that we weren’t alone in our struggles. It brought us together like a family joined in our common fight to end cancers. And like a family, together we’ll all mourn for our loss. May Kurt rest in peace and perpetual light shine upon him. My thoughts and prayers to you all.
All my best,
Gia
Dear Evey and Thallmayer Family,
My deepest sympathy goes out to the entire family. Andree, Evey and the entire family this certainly is a very sad time. Kurt will always be remembered by so many friends. He was a very special person.
Love to all of you,
Joyce Dyer
Liebe Evey und Fam. Thallmayer
Erinnerungen sind das einzige Paradies, aus dem wir nicht vertrieben werden können.
Alles Liebe
Marianne u. Peter
Switzerland
I am so sorry to hear of Kurt's passing. My prayers are with his friends and family.
To Evey and family,
Mere words are inadequate at a time like this. Kurt was a man who lived life with zest and humor, and loved and was loved by so many who had the good fortune to know him. His last three years were an inspiration to all us.
Love,
Jack and Jenny Johnson
Impossible to express our sadness!!
Pat and Karan Bass
(sorry, looks like the blog lost our earlier comments, re-posting now...)
There is such sadness in our hearts. Our condolences go out to Evey and all the Thallmayer family at this difficult time. Our recollections of Kurt will always burn bright in our hearts as someone so full of vigor, humor, happiness and warmth. Kurt touched us all and our wish for all here will be for the good memories to shine through and color all our remembrances. God bless.
- Mike & Alice
thinking about you buddy..
Thinking about you today Kurt. You were such an awesome influence on my life both personally and professionally
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